So anyway – after much of the dithering that seems to surround any decision I make ever about women, I recently finally got around to not dithering and making up my mind.
Of course part of the hesitation was uncertainty about TOP (the other person) felt. Discovered that TOP has been agonising over this decision for months (it was a little mind blowing to discover this goes backs to weeks before Christmas).
TOP showed me her blog. She did ask me not to pass the URL on – but I do feel a complete idiot right now.